mook, i second what katt said. my first husband had the same issue (btw, i never thought badly of it. there are other ways to please). however, masturbation prior to the act will slow down the premature ejaculation. if you're morally against masturbation, maybe you can get your partner involved in another method prior to the actual act?

gl. i'm sorry you felt embarrassed to post this. it's a very good question about something that many ppls deal with.

take care and gl!

kd