I agree with Sky. It was probably not the most sensitive way of trying to "help" someone, but it sounds like her heart was in the right place.

Face it - we all look at each other. Doesn't mean that we're thinking lewd thoughts at the same time.

I'm sorry that you're feeling uncomfortable about it. I had someone (a peer at school) tell me the same thing when I was in high school, and actually, she was right. My bras DIDN'T fit me, and since my mom had died 2 years earlier and I had no sisters, she really did do me a favor by making the suggestion.