Mostly I am concerned that she cannot improve, if with "professionnal" help of 3 months she has only sessions with her psy telling her "Ok, it is nothing wrong". By herself she couldn't improve in all those years. Her relations are repeating always with similar ending, and she is a "victim of love".

But my question could be one in general, this is the exemple I have.


I also talked by phone with her psy. I don't want to come back to my ex but I would want her to improve, if not her life would be difficult to be different from what it was all those years.

I should had not told that is concerning me or my ex. Instead I should written only a possible story.

We cannot know the truth. But, presuming what I write is true, what is the conclusion? (That is the purpose of this topic, of course to presume the story is real)


That this is the role of a psyhologist, to only validate her client, without forcing him to actually improve?