Isn't the forums to discuss about such kind of things? If not, if we take the ideea that "everybody knows for themselves" (which is correct), then plenty discussion would not exist.

I will probably see her as a friend, and will try to explain her that is not normal what she does, and she needs to find a psy that can really help her (if she does wants to improve as she claims).


I do not want to get back with her, but I do care about her, is normal and ethical to direct people we care about to get help when we find that neccesary.

If my ex would come here and would made a post similar to mine, and would share her experience with her psy, what would your answers be?


How can a person with traits of a serious personality disorder improve if the psyhologist only says that "is ok" and even encourage unstable behavior?