In my opinion you should take this chance to review your relationship as a whole and think about how your husband generally behaves towards you, when you are ill or sad or happy..the whole deal. That should give you some clues about the kind of man he is. But that does not mean you should let this incident slide. If he is nice to you in general, then you can slowly make him understand that it is not ok to be cold when someone is crying. Even if he remained adamant on the point of death, there were other ways he could show his concern for you when you were upset. Ask him to be more considerate of your feelings in the future. One incident does not define normal or abnormal. But if he becomes a repeat offender, then it might be better to consider other options.