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Old Nov 24, 2019, 03:02 PM
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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear View Post
There are a few people who perceive me as a “nasty person” and they show that in subtle or not so subtle ways.
If I was a “nasty person” whatever that means. Maybe I would be indifferent to that. Rather than being sad at what is a repeating pattern of blame and indifference that my parental units always showed to me

Has anyone else experienced this? people who don’t even know you judging you? It’s not a good feeling.

What really makes me sad is that the parental units didn’t try to know me, or to care

Maybe it’s more likely that some people don’t like my openness, about some things. I don’t know. It doesn’t matter. But I matter. I’m not an object to project disowned “stuff” onto

(not about anyone on pc)
I feel like this all the time with my family and their friends. You are not alone. I'm sorry that you had to go through this.
Hugs from:
Fuzzybear
Thanks for this!
Fuzzybear