So... #(%^_@ got visitation with our youngest, but not our oldest (who was in a Behavioral Health center at the time of the hearing).
Sat there and obviously purjured himself... no one cared.
I was barely allowed to speak. His attorney bounced all the evidence I tried to present on what seemed to me spurious grounds, and the magistrate let her.
He told obvious lies (In one breath, "I'm paying the electic bill", which is true. When he was asked if what he was paying was covering the full amount he said, "I don't know. They won't give me access to the account information as I don't have the account number." Really? Then how are you paying the bill? But I wasn't allowed to say anything.)
Only good news is that since then, I've been able to hire an attorney.