i wonder...

the trouble i have when i look at porn is that i have these kinds of thoughts occur to me 'if a woman has been sexually abused then she is 4 times more likely to be asked to pose for porn'. stuff like that. so when i look... i wonder about the girl... i wonder what her life story is. i wonder if she feels happy with what she has done and i wonder about what happened in her life for her to feel that way about it...

and the guys too. i don't know that they have done studies on the rates of male sexual abuse in males who participate in the porn industry.

maybe i'm too idealistic... i don't know... but would reading about porn from that kind of perspective... help those kinds of thoughts occur to you if you do look at porn... such that... it isn't enjoyable anymore? because i guess i find it hard to enjoy it because i am worrying about the participants and their willingness or unwillingness and about the messages it gives to people about sex etc etc. do ya think that might help? i guess i'm just kinda curious about whether people who are into porn don't believe the stats or whether they just put them out of mind while they view porn or whether they simply don't care... i dunno...