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Originally Posted by Calla lily12
Thank you all for your thoughtful responses. I understand what was meant by "what I want to happen" or similar words.(I can't scroll back) I appreciate all of your honesty. I know it's important to be within boundaries and I know he will. It's just very hard for me as I'm feeling very alone in this. I do know what's right and wrong. Maybe I'm just immature and dreaming.
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It doesn't make you immature at all. It's likely calling back to the part of you who didn't get your needs met as a child. Or who isn't getting them met as an adult. Or both. And your T seems to be meeting those needs, so it's natural to want more that goes beyond the boundaries of the T-client relationship.