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Default Nov 25, 2019 at 09:42 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Calla lily12 View Post
Thank you all for your thoughtful responses. I understand what was meant by "what I want to happen" or similar words.(I can't scroll back) I appreciate all of your honesty. I know it's important to be within boundaries and I know he will. It's just very hard for me as I'm feeling very alone in this. I do know what's right and wrong. Maybe I'm just immature and dreaming.

It doesn't make you immature at all. It's likely calling back to the part of you who didn't get your needs met as a child. Or who isn't getting them met as an adult. Or both. And your T seems to be meeting those needs, so it's natural to want more that goes beyond the boundaries of the T-client relationship.
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