That sounds like my Grandma.....she would find the littlest thing to pick on & then make sure you knew all about it.

Rude.....not really harrassment.

I never could understand where my Grandma was coming from....it wasn't really good intentions either.....she was just a picky old lady all her life....think she was like that with my Mom all her life too....no wonder my Mother had no self -estem.......I was able to ignore & brush her off. My Mother was very sensitive & took all that crap to heart......not a good thing to do.....it's important to be able to put things like that into perspective & not take people like that seriously.....they really have no value to add to your life & I believe that only something that can add value to my life is worth listening to.

Just put it where it belongs.......not serious & out of your mind....unless you want to try what she has to say....if it might make you feel better.

I remember standing hunched over....at 5'2" that's kinds hard cause then I was really short...but I was embarrassed when I was growing up & one of the neighborhood guys noticed that I was developing....mind you, my girl development ended at a AA bra size, so there wasn't really anything there in the first place, but I was embarrassed.

What helped the hunched over was when I started taking ballroom dancing....wow.....when you float around the dance floor in the correct position......it's amazing how straight & proud you stand......for me, ballroom dancing & dressage riding did more than any underwires could possibly do.....lol

Don't sweat the little stuff,
Debbie