Hello bluejay: I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to Psych Central. The Relationships forum, here on PC, may also be of interest to you. Here's a link:

https://psychcentralforums.com/relat...communication/

And then here are links to 8 articles, from Psych Central's archives, that provide information for partners of sex addicts:

Should I Stay or Should I Go? Navigating a Relationship with a Sex Addict

When You Are the Partner of a Sex Addict, Part 1

When You Are the Partner of a Sex Addict, Part 2

FAQs for Partners of Sex Addicts

https://psychcentral.com/blog/coping...sex-addiction/

https://psychcentral.com/blog/6-stag...dium=popular17

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/sex-a...dium=popular17

https://psychcentral.com/blog/the-12...s-in-recovery/

Here are links to 3 articles that may be of interest to your bf as well as you:

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/sex/2...church-part-1/

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/sex/2...church-part-2/

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/sex/2...church-part-3/

I hope you find PC to be of benefit.