Hugs, NP, that all sounds really difficult. Your T shouldn't have told you that you have no reason to feel hurt--whatever you're feeling is valid, and a T of all people should realize that. And it sucks that he was talking about how he's gone above and beyond for you--ex-T and Dr. T have said similar things to me, and it hurt. I'm not sure if you should take the call from T or not--if you're feeling uncertain about talking to him, then it's possible you could end up in more conflict that would I assume be left hanging until next week? But then maybe he'd be in a better mindset and could make you feel better about the relationship. Do you think you're going to ask him to still call?