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MissCharlotte said:
Almeda,

Ohhhh I really have been where you are. I have felt the emotional fragility of a rupture so much so that the fear of another is always in the back of my mind.

Just a thought---T did say out loud that you prefer your 7pm time slot, so can you try to hold onto the fact that he did remember that you "like" this time slot? I notice that he said like and you said need. So, I was thinking that maybe you could entertain a conversation surrounding your need for a consistent time.

I have found that even if I told T something before, sometimes he hears me the second or third time rather than the first. I am also noticing that is neither a good or bad thing but points out my need to keep trying on those issues that are important to me.

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He did say like and I do need it! Maybe that is it, he doesn't know how important it really is to me?

I've made comments to both of them though about 'my time slot' etc. He's never said it isn't mine and that he doesn't do standing appts...