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Default Nov 26, 2019 at 01:42 PM
 
When I bullied or trolled innocent people, it was never about them. It always was because I had deep inside unresolved problems that fueled my rage and hatred I took out on the innocent people I bullied and/or trolled because I had learned no productive ways to manage my anger.

My stuffed, raw rage came flying out because I didn't know why I was bullying people. I thought their behavior warranted my angry response because that is what I saw over and over from my abusers.

Now, having done my best to work through what troubles me, I no longer have that need, thankfully. I was miserable when I bullied people.

I hope this helps some of you see what really goes on when someone is bullying or trolling you.

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