Thank you, BB, I am going to try the thumb tuck trick in therapy tomorrow to see if it helps.
We really need to work on being present in the body. As it is we are really averse to doing anything body related in front of our T. Such as... move, stand, drink, or anything body related at all. I suppose we actually sit very still and controlled during therapy? But that is not true I suppose because those two younger ones can move there. Whatever, I will try the thumb trick. (But out of sight of the T!)