The black hole has an escape route!!! At least that's what I tell myself! I know for me it was a change in thinking that helped me a few times. I can't change the past. You can't change the past either! No one can. Either we can learn from the past, or run in fear. (Thanks to a movie called the lion king) Which do you want to choose?

I myself choose learn from the past. At least that's what my conscious mind says.