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Old Nov 27, 2019, 06:14 AM
KLL85 KLL85 is offline
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Originally Posted by toomanycats View Post
It might've been an accident or a hacking. It might also be his private sexual life. You're allowed to have feelings, of course, but there's technically nothing "wrong" with porn or sex. Every therapist has a private sexual life; it's not really our right to know about it. But, now you do, I'd talk to him about it...just understand that your reactions are your reactions, you have a right to them, but you didn't actually have a right to know about his sexual life...he didn't bring this into your therapy. He's not being sexually aggressive here or coersive or doing something ethically wrong. And, if you can't move past it, so be it - you move on to a different therapist.

or...maybe it's all a mistake.
I get what you’re saying and I have absolutely no desire to know anything about his sexual life. But I also know he has a wife and young kids and that just seems extremely disrespectful to his family, which makes me question the type of person he is.
I know I was in the wrong for looking at it in the first place, and it may be that he was hacked but it’s still something that has shocked and upset me. I guess I’m just being irrational.