I would add that you really need a family law lawyer to help protect the rights of your child and you.

I don't know how else to say this, but this guy just sounds like a complete jerk. You know what a real man does when his girl/woman gets pregnant? He steps up to the plate. Is all over it. Ditch this loser and find a real man. You deserve one and he is out there. Sending you positive vibes.