I think fear is probably the main emotion that can hold is back from achieving goals. I typically don’t have much fear about anything , except when it comes to relationships. I tend to stick around too long in relationships that don’t meet my needs. I think I have a fear of being alone with a special person, a partner. Not that I am afraid I can’t take care of myself etc it’s more a fear of that empty spot next to me emotionally, like a void. I guess I fear how I will handle it, I fear my own reactions, the pain, and sadness and if I can handle it without getting more depressed then I typically am.