Expectations brings tears. Acceptance brings cheers.
You cannot engineer your life. Life is like a box of chocolates....you may never know what you get. Even if you say, had a girl....if tomorrow, she turns out to be a transgender and decides to become a man, what will you do? What if you have a girl who hates girly pink stuff. What if you have a boy who loves pink girly stuff?
Don't live in future micro-planning how things will be in your life....because that will never happen. Sit back and enjoy the ride....take the things as they come! And you can as well buy girly pink stuff for your boy. Buy toys that you wanted to buy for a girl. As an infant, I doubt he will notice whether things around him are girly or boyish. He will however quickly learn how much his parents love him. And if buying immaterial material things like pink strollers makes you happy..........go for it. Happier moms are the best!
I wish you and your son well. Hope he has a healthy life filled with unconditional love.
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