Hello cinzuk: I noticed this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to Psych Central. One additional forum, here on PC, that may be of interest would be the Partners of People & Caregivers Forum. Here's a link:

https://psychcentralforums.com/partn...ivers-support/

I'm sorry I don't have personal experiences related to your concern I can share (except that I think your hubby & I probably share some similar tendencies but for different reasons.) However here are links 4 articles on the subject of Asperger's syndrome & relationships plus links to 3 additional articles: 1 on how to persuade a loved one to seek professional help, 1 on how to help a loved one who is in denial, & 1 on how to talk to someone who always gets defensive:

Romance, Love and Asperger Syndrome

5 Tips for Loving Someone with Asperger's Syndrome

Aspergers and Non-Aspie Relationships | Divergent Thinkers: Asperger's, NLD & More

Self-Care Tips for Those Married to Someone with Asperger Syndrome

https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-to...essional-help/

https://psychcentral.com/blog/11-way...-denial/?all=1

https://psychcentral.com/lib/how-to-...dium=popular17

I hope you find PC to be of benefit.