Thanks everyone once again for the advice. He once again crossed a line today, on Thanksgiving. He bailed on plans that I had made for us back in September for this weekend, something that was really important to me. He claims I never told him to ask for it off work but I told him many many times and now he dropped the bomb on me that he will be working and won’t be able to attend. I then got upset and said I don’t feel like a priority to him and he went off into a tangent about how I ruin every holiday, how I’m mentally ill, obsessive, annoying, and no one can stand to be around me. I want out of this so bad but I have nowhere to go and no funds or car to do so. I’m so upset, this holiday means a lot to me and now it’s ruined. The holiday season is really important to me and now I know I’m not even going to be able to enjoy it and it really hurts.