Do you feel this relationship has run it's course? That's kinda how it sounds. Don't force anything that isn't going to work; I know that from experience. Should you still see her if you do break up? Probably not. Once after a break-up, I still had contact with this girl. We were part of the same cirlce of friends. Unfortunately, after a short time I came to realize that they were not my circle of friends but her circle of friends. Very depressing. That probably has nothing to do with your problems, but I needed to say it.

As far as sex drive, that could be reduced just because your getting older. That's the bad news. The good news is that you can survive. The world's at you doorstep. Now I'm getting all mushy. As much as I want to tell you to hold on to this "wonderful" girl, that might not be right for you. Also, I don't know how she feels about you. It may be time for you to have a serious talk with her. I do know one thing: couple who are going somewhere do not talk about breaking up.

Time is the only thing I know that can inprove trust. I'm still working on that one for myself. I hope I can find someone who I can trust. Good luck again.