As I told you on PM, I am tickled PINK that I found you on "who's online" and looked at your profile to find you might be a kindred spirit!!!!



You asked about my wife. She is sitting 5 feet away from me right now at her computer and has ZERO idea what is going on here. And very curious.

I have a therapist appt coming up soon, but in the meantime have been having some talks with a close friend of my wife and me, who is a therapist, and shared the SECRET. My friend knows my wife and is sure my wife is up to the challenge. I hope so, because telling her just what's so is very important to me. And VERY SCARY!

You are too right about one's gender orientation, and sexual preference, and physical sex being different things. I find it so natural to have the feelings I do, but know that they are pretty darn weird to most everyone else. (I mean a lesbian, in a man's body! For G-D's sake, this is wacko!) My big fear is just how wacko my wife is going to think I am, and then she is for having spent 30 oblivious years with me this way. (Oblivious to me, as well.)

Respect women!? Absolutely! I was a women's libber when the whole idea was born in the early 70's. I love women! I wish I was one! I kind of am one! Sort of...

Well, thanks again for your time and thoughts.

kv

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