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Default Nov 29, 2019 at 12:08 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Stripey21 View Post
His reasons for leaving were:

I’m boring and he craves adventure (friends and family say this isn’t true about me. I’ve always been adventurous)

I’m too bad tempered. I work full time, early starts and I admit to getting very tired

I have a good relationship with his family but they say hurtful things to me at times. His mum told me I was fat when I was pregnant,for instance. I tried very hard to not speak to him about these hurtful comments in the end because I knew it was tricky for him (I am married to him after all and not them). So I began to keep them to myself but he cited it as a factor for him leaving.

I don’t think there’s anything else I can do other than make myself into a better, calmer person. I’ve tried talking to him, he’s been pretty clear that this is what he wants. Thank you for all your advise.
I'm sorry that his family is treating you horrible. You don't deserved to be called named and it sounds like he and his family is the problem not you.
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