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Nov 29, 2019, 12:42 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2019
Location: Downtown Vibes, California
Posts: 15,701
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I really don't want to have to go into trigger warnings by giving detailed descriptions, so I'll just say that the group is triggering for me. It crosses boundaries for me. I am extremely uncomfortable with objectifying women (and men). I will not tolerate racism, and don't find racist jokes amusing.
Why am I disappointed with my friend? Because I have never known her to find amusement in objectifying anyone, nor have I ever known her to be racist. Her cousin made her a mod for the group and I feel like my friend is succumbing to peer pressure.
This thread is going in a direction that is causes me stress that I really can't cope well with right now. I appreciate the support. I will tell my friend that the group is just not for me. The "knitting" example makes perfect sense.
With that, I'm asking that we allow this thread to stop. Thanks very much. 
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