Note to self: Next time you have a moment when you're wondering how some exes are doing and look them up, don't actually friend them if you find them on Facebook. Because then you end up in a messenger chat and feeling kind of awkward. Especially because this guy was more of a "friend with benefits" sort of thing. (I did not have any ulterior motives in contacting him, just idle curiosity.) Turns out we have kids the same age, so that's kinda neat.