Thanks, Blanche. At this point, after giving this all more thought, I have pretty well defined who I can talk to and who is just not worth it. Sadly, my own family is on the not worth even trying list, but it is what it is, as they say. They haven't even asked how I am doing for weeks and when they did it was invalidating. A friend I hadn't heard from in a few weeks texted me the other day and we had a good chat. She was supportive and not annoying. Arguing/confronting people is not really something I have energy for with everything that is going on.