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Old Nov 30, 2019, 04:57 PM
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Originally Posted by BethRags View Post
I can definitely understand why you feel abandoned.

My guess is that many T's wouldn't contact a patient who ran out for the reasons others have stated (ethics).

That said, I did have a therapist contact me after I had seen her for 2 sessions. I just didn't feel like she was a good fit, cancelled the third session without an explanation (it was awkward). She called to ask if I was okay and wondered why I had cancelled.

I cannot imagine my current T - or at least the office aid - not calling to check on me. That said, since you actually ran out of session the situation might be handled differently.

Whatever the case, I would feel as you do. However, I think it would be a good idea (since you've been in therapy with her for a long time) to set up an appointment to discuss the situation.


I agree. But I’m so bad at saying goodbye and leaving in a good way. I have always just sneaked out the back and just left for good.

Also, I think going back would just “suck me into it“ again, making me feel as if I need her and can’t live independently without her.
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