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Old Nov 30, 2019, 08:05 PM
*Beth* *Beth* is offline
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Originally Posted by MatBell View Post
I agree. But I’m so bad at saying goodbye and leaving in a good way. I have always just sneaked out the back and just left for good.

Also, I think going back would just “suck me into it“ again, making me feel as if I need her and can’t live independently without her.

Oh, I so well understand...I'm the same way. Of course, that's the purpose of therapy, and change is hard and uncomfortable. I truly hope you'll tell her what you've told us. Even print out what you've written. Because that's where your self-work is.
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Thanks for this!
MatBell