Actually, she didn't want to tell me what was happening. But I needed her to open up, because she was driving me crazy. I didn't want to know those details, but I'm a grown up. She's a woman, he's a man, and this is nothing new. I even told her (ugh) to not take the porn thing as cheating because all men do it since ever. I caught his browsing history. He doesn't understand IT, so he has no idea there's a history...
I hear her as: "woman complaining man is cheating" and try (ugh) to ignore they are my parents.
She needs to get out of this state of mind.
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