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That's the problem. She refuses to go. Says she's not depressed, that I think I know everything and my theories are BS.
I had a serious depression some years ago, so I know what is like. And I told her that. Her answer: "It's not comparable", she says. I told her (trying to not get offended...) depression is depression, the symptoms are the same, psychologists don't get confused just because the situation changes.
My father...well, I'm just not so shocked because (sorry male community): he's a man. They (I'll add "almost" to not be offensive) all cheat. I work with men, I share the computer, I know stories. Married, they like their families, but they cheat.
But she's painting him like a horrible person. Saying he only stayed with her for pity. For us. I don't believe that. He liked her just as much as she liked him. But 40 years are 40 years.
My mother is really not an accountable person and since all I say is self development BS I just can't make her think about her role. And that's also depression: it's all everyone else's fault. Ultimately she decided to stay with him, no one forced her. She has excuses for when she was younger, older, much older.
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