I agree, it's not the situation she wanted, but it's the situation she's in. I once rented a room from a man who said he was a medical writer, not disclosing until later that he'd lost his practicing privileges because of a drug problem. So i understand not feeling safe, and things not being "right".

Is she in danger like Jane Eyre, where the woman is locked away but escapes and sets the house on fire? I dont think so. I see it more as a matter of, life gives you lemons, make lemonade.

Hmm. I live a quiet life now, but i have a somewhat checkered past! No wonder im so tired?