That's the bottom line for me...it all depends upon the site she and you are on.
The women I have exchanged cards and gifts with, we had all gone through miscarriages & were on a support site. There was a core group of around 8 of us and we got to know each other really well. 14 years later, we're still in contact with each other.
It's all a matter of the site, how long you've known each other, and your gut feeling (intuition).
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