Asking you to come over sounds like he doesn’t want to make an effort. Why can’t he pick you up and take you out to a nice restaurant? Stop going to his house. See if he’ll make an effort. If your dating consists of you going to his house, then why would he bother making any effort

If you call and text and he doesn’t reply, there are no serious dinner plans.

People don’t change. He isn’t going to magically become loving attentive boyfriend. It’s not who he is. All you can change is yourself.