My T is usually pretty calm, low key voice, and seems to deliberately avoid signs of aggression. One session I was drifting off in my mind, staring at the floor and I finally answered one of those questions about how something made me feel. My T immediately sat up raised her hands over her head and spoke loudly. In side I about dove for the door. My next thought was "%#@&#!, don't flinch, you can take her down easily if you had to." Only after this initial response was what she actually said processed, "Well hell yeah!, most people would feel that way." I think she was just excited at finally making some progress. She had never shown me aggression and was no way a real threat to me, but the minute she move quickly or raise her voice I was ready to fight.