I remember early on in therapy, I had started mainly because I wanted help for my son. I had gone a few times to check my T out, my son had gone twice, and then my husband went once. I was SO afraid that the T would tell my husband things that I had said. In fact I reminded her that I expected her to maintain my confidentiality and that I DID NOT WANT any personal insights she might have gain about me shared with my husband at this point. I know I was a being a total freak but anyway. Her session with my husband must have been a really emotional one, he came home very upset even crying. He has refused to go back since. As he talked about what was discussed, I realize that most of their time was spent talking about OUR relationship and not about the relationship between my H and my son. I was pissed, at both my H and my T. Especially by the way my H described what she had said and how she agreed with him about this or that...blah..blah..blah. I now realize that what he said she said, and what she likely ACTUALLY said, were two very different things.

Go back the therapy and find out directly from your T what was discussed and not discussed. Then you can judge for yourself who is telling the truth. You need to be able to trust your T. If she is not trustworthy with regard to your disclosures then, stop going to her! Listen to your gut. My gut told me my T was being honest; not my husband.