So my husband was doing this to me after he had become emotionally attached to a female friend and became sexually attracted to her.
We had an argument, he confided in me his emotional affair which I could tell was happening already..
To make a long story short, they stopped communicating and seeing each other (she also was his massage therapist which was ethically wrong). My husband and I are reconciling and things have been better than before.
My husband and I had to do some serious changing within ourselves. Neither of us should be responsible each other’s happiness. Let me just say to you that “the grass is not always greener” my friend. Look within, what are you looking for? When you have everything that you need right in front of you. What is missing in your life? If your wife and your life is not what you want be honest with yourself and if you know that is what you want then get your **** together man! Life is too short enjoy and don’t take it for granted.