Yes,of course. It attracts more abuse.The people who are enjoying the favours actually disrespect you or demand more favours once they know you are a people pleaser. Once I was sick and could not stay alone.I asked one of my uncle who took a lot of my favours if I could stay with them for a couple of days.He said sure,come over.I went there anticipating rest and a little attention. My aunt bought groceries and asked me to prepare meal for a family of five from scratch. Chopping salads,entry ,main course and desert.She said she was excited that I visited and wanted me to stay for at least one week,so that they will be able to enjoy all the recipes,I can cook expertly. She bought all the necessary ingredients and had a big menu planned for each day for one week.Everyone in my family knows I am a good cook.I had to comeback home the next day.I felt so sick and tired.When I said I would like to go home,my uncle was very upset and pleaded me to stay because my aunt put an effort to buy groceries. If I didn't cook it's waste of their money as well as energy.I returned home anyway because I needed to rest.