Hello kathairein: I noticed this is your first post here on PC. So...welcome to Psych Central. 
Here are links to 4 articles, from Psych Central's archives, on the subject of emotional affairs that (hopefully) may be of interest to you & possibly to your husband as well:
What Is An Emotional Affair | Psychology of Women
What if You Suspect Emotional Infidelity?
What Everyone Should Know About Emotional Affairs
5 Steps To End An Emotional Affair
I hope you find PC to be of benefit. 
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