May I add to what I just wrote-------I then made certain that I would SUCCEED in everything I did to prove them wrong about me. Was very successful at the insurance industry, made lots of money, nice cars etc. Still my mother found fault in everything I did. She use to make me practice writing for hours till I my hand hurt as I was to have the same penmanship that she learned. In fact today I can write exactly like her and my father to boot. uh hu