I don't know, MM...I can't help but feel bad for you. I haven't known you for more than a few months, it's true. But aside from your son, your marriage sounds a lot like mine.
My husband has a severe MI (OCD and hoarding). 15 years into our relationship/marriage I moved into my own place. The kids were in college and I couldn't stand living with him anymore.I was fried from caretaking him. I'm stuck on your sleep thing...I really don't believe that people understand how frustrating it can be when your spouse disrupts the routine of the entire house by not going to bed all night.
If you have BD sleep, of course, is essential. A regular, consistent sleep routine.
Anyway, I could get on a soapbox about how my husband's sleep habits messed up our marriage. Bottom line, you have my sympathy.
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