Sleep and eating is our main argument when healthy. We're both overly supportive/(co-dependent?) we both can stand in the way of treatment. We've got much better. We're both are in therapy and on meds. He's pretty much the only one I interact with so when I'm having issues he gets the brunt of it. Our "arguments" are maybe 5 min. Where I raise my voice and I'm reminded not to raise my voice and then we talk about it. We're both internalize things vs externalize things. If anyone would be label the care taker it would be him. Thank-you so much for understanding why sleep is such an important issue to me.