I don't or can't recommend this to anyone but I made the decision to cut my whole family off. It actually started with them doing it to me, and I was the one pushing and shoving myself to get involved with them. The last draw was when my sister decided to stop talking to me, and couldn't tell me why.

I decided to hand it over to God and let him deal with it, meanwhile yes I am alone, and lonely and miss my family but my sister pushing me out of her life was probably the best thing that could have happened.

I no longer have that burden to carry along with guilt of doing or saying the wrong thing. Kind of like a sense of freedom. I actually get anxious and sick if they try and get a hold of me, so I know it isn't in my best interest to engage with them anymore.