Thank you for the help. She doesn't feel like her grandparents are manipulative, but everyone else as far as her friends, I, and other family members see them as such. I guess I will just have to take the wait and see approach to things. This morning, I found out that she has been telling our mutual friends that she loves me very much, but does not feel like she is ready to be in a serious relationship with me right now. So I guess that answers many of my questions.

Does she seem like a classic case of type II?