This is a good topic. I don't know the answer. I'm middle aged and just starting (good) therapy. I have never had a relationship although I have an adult son. Since he's become independent I think more about finding someone, but I really can't imagine it. Not only do I need my privacy and space but because I feel I'm so "behind" others emotionally that I would never find someone. Sometimes I hate that I isolate except for work and necessary errands and sometimes I think this is just the way it has to be for me.

In the meantime I am just enjoying the therapy relationship so much.

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being abandoned while loving is just too much.

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Lenny, this is a powerful thing you said. Thank you.