Hello (((YACK))). I am sorry for the issues that you are having at this time. I dont think she meant the statement to be a sexual intrusive remark, but more of a statement to help you with your issues that you may not be aware of yourself. I dont think or feel that it is exactly appropriate, but maybe her advice could be used in a helpful manner no less. If the persons advice becomes constant or bothersome then there should be concern for what this person is getting at exactly besides being concerned for your well being. Then action should be taken for harassment if warranted in order to allow you to come into an appropriate workplace. Take care (((YACK))). I hope things get better soon. Soidhonia