Lol! Actually, I think you don’t have to feel sorry if they are true narcissist. Unless, they want to learn and work on their issues, they will likely go right away to the their next target without thinking of you twice. That, if not have several targets at the same time. In that case, they won’t need to look for another target.
Boundaries issues? Of course. Only that as I don’t socialice a lot, I don’t have the opportunity to affect people or being affected by people way too much.
You know, I have been noticing that my boundaries issues are usually reflected in a passive-aggressive behaviour. I know it sounds selfish and it’s selfish but I caught up myself in a quite gregarious behaviour and then, demand the same response on the other person.
In your case, what did you find harder to learn about boundaries issues?
I’ve been off the forum for many months and I guess I missed to share about these topics since I don’t have people or I don’t feel comfortable treating these topics with people who are nearest to me.