Thank you for all your replies.I know that most of you think that this is not good for me and I understand why that is.Thank you for your encouragement,Junerain,it's very helpful to hear that.When my friend (or maybe I should say former friend) was saying she "wasn't ready yet",she also repeated that she was sorry.What I've been thinking is that ,if someone is truly sorry,don't they do something about it,or does that not apply when she has problems with depression.Sometimes I think that ,other times I see the effort she puts into her sexual relationships and although that's a different type of relationship,I think well,it shows she can maintain a relationship,ill or not.Maybe I'm wrong to look at things so simply and logically,I don't know.