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Originally Posted by mindmechanic
This therapist has been in practice for over 30 years. She wrote to me this morning, saying, "As you're working this out: remember, among other things, that I refused to talk with your old therapist sharing with me any information that could not be shared with you. That should count in your deliberations." .
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Oh, nope, no, nope, and NO!!!!! I am all too eager to give the benefit of the doubt but for me that just put the last nail in the coffin. I would be looking elsewhere. I adore my T and he is far from perfect, we talked about that yesterday, he has made mistakes with me... lots of them! He LISTENS to my ranting forever! He ASKS clarifying questions about what upset me and what we need to differently, he gives me space... never in a million years would he tell me “but I did this one thing right doesn’t that count?” OMG are we back in JR high?
Yep, that hit a button.